Emotional Decisions
Hello everyone, I’m back for another monthly post! I hope you are doing well! 💗
Today I wanted to talk about how emotional intelligence can save us from bad choices or decisions that we will ultimately regret.
As someone who often makes choices based on what my heart or what my emotions want, rather than through logical reasoning, a lot of times I end up in situations that make me overall regret that decision. And I’m sure that you may have felt that way too at one point!
Many decisions we choose to make are in response to our emotions at that moment.
And if we do not take time to think about what we say or what we are about to do, and instead go with it, it may or not always be what is best at the end.
It makes us go “Crap.. why did I say that?” or “Why did I do that?”🤦🏾♀️
Now I’m not saying be cautious with EVERY decision you make, (I’m a very indecisive person when it comes to certain things soooo I totally get it!)
Sometimes it's better to go for the moment!
But what I am saying is that, when it comes to certain situations, it's important to try to do things based on what you feel and know is right, and not let your emotions control you.
When we make decisions while we’re angry or sad, we may regret those decisions when we are calm or in a better mood. And when we are happy or calm, we feel more confident or relaxed in the choices we make.
So why am I talking about this?
So originally I already had a draft all ready to go around a week ago, but I decided not to release it due to this reason.
When I wrote my original monthly post, it was connected to a situation that was very personal to me and that affected me very badly.
When I wrote this piece, I was filled with anger and sadness, and I just wrote it as a way to let out my frustrations.
Later, when I calmed down, I really second-guessed myself about whether or not I should post it.
On one hand, I want to be honest with my truth, and with my beliefs.
But another part of me was like,
“Do I feel comfortable in expressing my feelings in this way?”
🌸Because you know, this blog is about focusing on self-love, self-care, and self-improvement.🌸
I mean I don’t wanna diminish the beauty of this blog (🌸look at how cute it is!🌸) by expressing things in a very angry manner.
It’s supposed to be peaceful, cutesy, and happy and to help us learn and grow!
And now looking back on this decision that I made to not release it, I am kind of glad I did but part of me wishes that I did.
Maybe I will at some point, but I will definitely revise it more to make it not sound super combative you know?
But yesss that’s all I have today, and I hope that listening to my own personal experience can help you reflect on your emotional decision-making as well! 💗
🌸Till next month! 🌸
🌸– nasrina 🌸
🌸WAIT!!!🌸
I have big stuff coming!
It may come soon sometime later this month or next month so you’ll actually see a lot more of me soon babes!
Let's just say……
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I just gotta order them to put it all together!
🌷But yes a lot of cutesy patootsy things will be coming. 🌷
And I can’t wait to share these amazing things with you soon!💗
I need to actually follow my business guide, I keep just doing a bunch of things at once.😭
💗But yes I can’t wait to see you soon!💗
💗Till next time!💗
🌸Toodaaloo!🌸
🌸 – <3 nasrina 🌸
